Somewhere along the line, most of us picked up the idea that our value lives out there. In someone else’s approval, in a job title, in likes and comments, in whether a client chooses us, or if we’re “in demand” this month. It’s subtle at first, but it creeps in, and suddenly we’re handing out calculators to everyone around us, letting them tally our value based on whatever criteria they find convenient. Here’s the truth: your self-worth never was an external measurement.